Monday, June 8, 2009
Look out world, here comes Becca!!!
Friday, May 15, 2009
We got grapes!!! ...Well we have grape vines
Friday, May 1, 2009
Meet brother Steve. He came to stay with us for 6 weeks or so until he could "get on his feet", that was 3 years ago. Without his help I probably would have never been able to financially make it through nursing school. He pays the electric and the water bill in exchange for free room and board. He is a process conrol technician in the automotive industry. He sets up processes for paint lines. He helps out around our homestead as needed. His daughter Sammy is my niece and her picture is in my last post. You couldn't ask to meet a nicer guy than Steve. He has his own ways and I frequently use him as a sounding board as he does have a talent for thinking abstractly.
Well you have now met all the players so I guess it is time for me to get on to the point of this blog which is to journal the progress we make around the homestead and share our experiences with the world. My next post will be about how we came to aquire our homestead, brag a little about the improvements we have made and share out to do list with you. My daughter Vicky is allowing me to use her digital camera to share our progress with you.
This is Stacie monkeying around with my neice Sammy. Stacie is the love of my life. We will be married 30 years this December. She has been plauged with alcholism for the entire time we have been together. When she is good she is very good, and when she is bad it is just terrible. This last week has been bad. There does not seem to be any rhyme or reason to what sets her off and sends her on a bender. They last anywhere from a few days to weeks. She mostly drinks that cheap liquor you buy at drug stores. I left her for a few months last year and she went to treatment for 28 days. She came out and went right back to drinking again. I wound up coming back home after she had sobered up for a few weeks and it has been on and off since then. Being a nurse I understand the disease process I learned in school and at countless family counseling sessions I have been to when she is conducive to getting treatment. No matter what training or counseling you have been through it does not lessen the hurt of knowing that once again someone has but more value on drinking than your relationship. We have been together to long for me to leave her again, I guess I hang on and hope for the best.
Friday, April 24, 2009
